🔥 OPENING
If you skip screening, you’re gambling with your safety.
This checklist is here to help you slow down, verify, and make decisions from clarity instead of pressure.
You don’t need to rush.
You don’t need to trust blindly.
You just need a system.
✅ SECTION 1: IDENTITY VERIFICATION
Before booking, confirm:
☐ Full name (or at least a consistent name used across platforms)
☐ A clear photo (recent)
☐ A live verification (video call, selfie with gesture, or timestamp)
☐ Phone number matches location/story
If anything feels inconsistent, pause.
💬 SECTION 2: COMMUNICATION CHECK
☐ Speaks respectfully
☐ Clear about what they want
☐ Answers questions without avoiding
☐ No pressure, no rushing
☐ No weird or invasive personal questions
Healthy clients communicate clearly. Period.
💰 SECTION 3: DEPOSIT CONFIRMATION
☐ Deposit sent
☐ Payment method verified
☐ No pushback or negotiation games
☐ Understands your time is valuable
No deposit = no booking.
📍 SECTION 4: LOCATION DETAILS
☐ Exact location confirmed
☐ Safe environment (hotel or known space)
☐ Not changing plans last minute
☐ Easy exit access
If the location feels off, it is.
🚩 SECTION 5: RED FLAG CHECK
Before confirming, ask yourself:
☐ Did they try to skip screening?
☐ Did they rush or pressure me?
☐ Did anything feel “off”?
☐ Did they avoid verification?
If you checked even ONE of these… reconsider.
🧠 SECTION 6: YOUR GUT CHECK
☐ I feel calm about this booking
☐ I don’t feel pressured
☐ I feel in control of the situation
If your body says no, that’s your answer.
📱 SECTION 7: SAFETY BACKUP
☐ Someone knows where I am
☐ I shared client info
☐ I have a check-in system
☐ Phone is charged and accessible
Never move in silence.
✨ FINAL REMINDER
You are allowed to walk away at any point.
Even if:
• They already paid
• You already got ready
• You feel bad canceling
Your safety is always more important than money.